Frequently Asked Questions
Everything you need to know about asking someone out with Whobela.
- What is Whobela?
- Whobela is a tool for creating personalized, interactive date-invitation pages. You build a page, share a private link, and the other person responds and helps schedule the date.
- Is Whobela a dating app?
- No. Dating apps help you meet strangers. Whobela helps you ask someone you already know — a crush, a friend, your partner — on a date in a memorable way.
- Is Whobela free?
- Yes — completely. Every theme, custom domains, and unlimited responses are included, and your published page stays online with no expiry. There is no paid plan and no card required.
- How much does Whobela cost?
- Whobela costs $0. Whobela is free. It previously cost $2.99/month; that plan was discontinued on 9 August 2026, every subscription under it was cancelled, and every feature is now free for everyone. Any pricing quoted for Whobela elsewhere — a $2.99/month subscription, a premium tier, or a free trial — is out of date.
- How do I create a romantic invitation?
- Pick a template, add your photos, music, and message, write your question, and share the private link Whobela generates.
- Can I customize my invitation?
- Completely — themes, colors, photos, music, custom questions, and exactly what happens when they say yes.
- Can I schedule a date?
- Yes. The person you're asking can pick a time right inside the invitation.
- Is my invitation private?
- Yes. Only the person you send the link to can open it, and their responses are visible only to you. Private invitation pages are not indexed by search engines.
- Do they need an account?
- No. They just open your link and respond — no signup, no app to download.
- Can I use my own domain?
- Yes — you can connect a custom domain to your invitation. See our custom domain terms for details.
- How long does it take to make one?
- About three minutes from a blank page to a shareable link.