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Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need to know about asking someone out with Whobela.

What is Whobela?
Whobela is a tool for creating personalized, interactive date-invitation pages. You build a page, share a private link, and the other person responds and helps schedule the date.
Is Whobela a dating app?
No. Dating apps help you meet strangers. Whobela helps you ask someone you already know — a crush, a friend, your partner — on a date in a memorable way.
Is Whobela free?
You can create and share your first invitation for free. Premium themes and features are available if you want more.
How do I create a romantic invitation?
Pick a template, add your photos, music, and message, write your question, and share the private link Whobela generates.
Can I customize my invitation?
Completely — themes, colors, photos, music, custom questions, and exactly what happens when they say yes.
Can I schedule a date?
Yes. The person you're asking can pick a time right inside the invitation.
Is my invitation private?
Yes. Only the person you send the link to can open it, and their responses are visible only to you. Private invitation pages are not indexed by search engines.
Do they need an account?
No. They just open your link and respond — no signup, no app to download.
Can I use my own domain?
Yes — you can connect a custom domain to your invitation. See our custom domain terms for details.
How long does it take to make one?
About three minutes from a blank page to a shareable link.