Why an invitation beats a text
A text is easy to ignore and easy to forget. A personalized invitation page says something a text never can: I thought about this, and I thought about you.
It also does the hard part for you. Instead of stumbling over the words in person, you let a beautiful page ask the question — and give them space to say yes.
How it works
- 1Pick a template. Start from a romantic, funny, or casual design — or a blank page.
- 2Make it personal. Add photos, your favorite song, a heartfelt message, and custom questions.
- 3Get your private link. Whobela gives you one unique link to share by text, DM, or QR code.
- 4Send it. They open the page on any device — it looks perfect on their phone.
- 5See their answer. When they respond, you see it instantly, plus their preferences.
- 6Schedule the date. Lock in a time right inside the invitation.
What you can customize
- ♥Themes and color palettes
- ♥Background photos and a photo gallery
- ♥Music or an audio message
- ♥Custom questions about their preferences
- ♥Your personal message and the exact question you ask
- ♥What happens when they say yes (celebration, scheduling, confirmation)
A digital, interactive love invitation
Whobela invitations are interactive: the person you're asking responds right on the page, shares what they'd love to do, and helps pick a time. It's a two-way moment, not a one-way message.
Everything is private. Only the person with your link can see it, and their answers are only visible to you.
Frequently asked questions
Is it free to create a date invitation?
Yes — you can create and share your first invitation for free. Premium themes and features are available if you want more.
How long does it take?
About three minutes from a blank page to a shareable link.
Can I change it after sending?
Yes. You can edit your invitation any time; the same link stays live.
Is my invitation private?
Completely. Only the person you send the link to can open it, and their responses are visible only to you.
Do they need an account?
No. They just open your link and respond — no signup, no app.
Is this a dating app?
No. Whobela is for asking someone you already know on a date in a memorable way, not for matching with strangers.